Memorial Day means many things in our culture. For many it marks the end of the school year, and the beginning of summer.
As I was speaking in Orlando on Memorial Day weekend, it was clear that it means the rush to vacation at one of the theme parks, while for others it’s the annual trip to the beach.
These vacation moments are important markers in the rhythm of life, but let’s also remember that memorial Day is officially set aside as a time to honor those who gave their life in serving our country.
Pictured above is L2L Contributing Author Lee Ellis on the left with 1/LT Doug Condit USAF on the right in July 1967.
In Lee’s words:
“This was the protective shelter they used to avoid incoming rocket attacks launched by N. Vietnamese communist soldiers who infiltrated the mountains near our base. Doug was my close friend and roommate in Vietnam. He went missing on 26 Nov 1967, 19 days after me. Doug was flying with another great guy, Col. Bert Brennan, USAF when their plane went down over North Vietnam. They both were declared Killed in Action after the war.”
Giving Their Lives
These men and women sacrificed themselves on our behalf. That’s a hard concept to grasp when we’re living the good life. How should we feel knowing that someone else has given his or her life for our liberty, privilege and enjoyment of life?
During the Vietnam War, I lost three very close friends from the days of training and deployment and several others from high school and college days. They were all great guys and brave warriors.
Like most all who go to war and come back alive, I often reflect on this loss.
We all ask:
“How come I came back and my buddies didn’t.”
There is no way to understand how God’s providence works and most warriors who have lost mates understand this type of guilt.
On Respect and Paying Tribute
Those of us who made it back carry on with our lives, moving through the seasons of life, but there is always a sad and empty place in our hearts as we recall our lost friends.
As we consider a day of memorial, it’s a good time to reflect on how we can pay tribute to them. If they could speak to us, I think they would say –
- Honor us when you pause in the rhythms of life to remember our sacrifice and the loss to our families.
- Go out and give your sacrifice by putting service to others and country ahead of self.
- You will honor us by living and leading with honor.
Let’s never forget those who did not return and honor them every day as we live our lives. Please share your comments on ways that today’s leaders in all sectors of society can honor the memories of those that gave their lives for our continued freedom.
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Lee Ellis is Founder & President of Leadership Freedom LLC & FreedomStar Media.
He is a leadership consultant and expert in teambuilding, executive development & assessments
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His latest book is called Leading with Honor: Leadership Lessons from the Hanoi Hilton.
- Memorial Day Reflection (jadethunter.wordpress.com)
- Thank You to Our Military and Veterans on Memorial Day! (stiel.org)
- Memorial Day: 5 Ways to Honor Fallen Troops (abcnews.go.com)